{"id":19499,"date":"2025-11-18T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2025-11-18T14:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sourcelive.hr.msu.edu\/?p=19499"},"modified":"2025-11-18T08:26:54","modified_gmt":"2025-11-18T13:26:54","slug":"feeling-stressed-consider-your-sphere-of-influence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sourcelive.hr.msu.edu\/?p=19499","title":{"rendered":"Feeling Stressed? Consider Your Sphere of Influence."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Ready or not, December is almost here! When you think about the remainder of the year, how do you feel? If thoughts of work deadlines, family get-togethers, or planning for the holidays and new year ahead have you feeling overwhelmed or anxious, you\u2019re not alone. Thankfully, there are practices and resources we can utilize to help us center ourselves and approach this time of year with a healthier mindset.\u202f<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Consider Your Sphere of Influence\u202f<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>We all know that allowing worry to grow uninhibited can lead to negative consequences, be it with our health, work performance, or relationships. So, why do we allow our minds to spend so much time in a state of worry?\u202f<a href=\"https:\/\/sourcelive.hr.msu.edu\/?p=14928\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">\u202fIn a previous blog post,\u202fJennie Schaeffer, Director of MSU Faculty and Academic Staff Affairs, discussed how worry can seem very active<\/a> \u2014 spending time in that mindset can feel like you are working on something productive \u2014 but in reality, you are burning through energy that could be better spent.\u202f<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you notice yourself worrying about what\u202fmight\u202fhappen, stop and ask yourself, \u201cWhat can I do about it now?\u201d\u202fOne way to visualize this is the Sphere of Influence.\u202f<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-medium_large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/sourcelive.hr.msu.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sphere-of-influence-graphic.png?resize=576%2C371&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Three circles on top of each other. The inner circle is labeled &quot;control,&quot; the middle circle is labeled &quot;possible influence, but no control,&quot; and the outer circle is labeled &quot;no control.&quot;\" class=\"wp-image-14929\" width=\"576\" height=\"371\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/sourcelive.hr.msu.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sphere-of-influence-graphic.png?resize=768%2C495&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/sourcelive.hr.msu.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sphere-of-influence-graphic.png?resize=300%2C193&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/sourcelive.hr.msu.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sphere-of-influence-graphic.png?resize=1024%2C659&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/sourcelive.hr.msu.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sphere-of-influence-graphic.png?resize=1536%2C989&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/sourcelive.hr.msu.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sphere-of-influence-graphic.png?resize=2048%2C1319&amp;ssl=1 2048w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/sourcelive.hr.msu.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sphere-of-influence-graphic.png?resize=940%2C605&amp;ssl=1 940w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/sourcelive.hr.msu.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sphere-of-influence-graphic.png?resize=621%2C400&amp;ssl=1 621w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/sourcelive.hr.msu.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sphere-of-influence-graphic.png?w=2280&amp;ssl=1 2280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Within the Sphere, there are three areas:\u202f<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li><strong>No Control<\/strong>:\u202fIf there is absolutely nothing you can do to change or influence a situation, you can only assess whether you can learn from it, then let it go and refocus on something else. This would apply to things like the weather, supply chain issues this season, or flight cancellations. To reduce feelings of worry and improve your well-being, spend minimal time and energy regarding any matters that fall within this area of the sphere.\u202f<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Possible Influence but No Control<\/strong>: If there is a step you can take that may influence an outcome, person, or situation, determine what action you can take to maximize that influence, follow through, and then let it go. Resist the temptation to convince yourself that worrying about it means it is within your control.\u202f<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Control<\/strong>:\u202fIf the issue you are wrestling with is completely within your control, then you have control over your decisions, attitude, and behavior. What action can you take that you\u2019ve been putting off? What self-care practice can you initiate to support your well-being? When you practice shifting your focus and attention to what is within your control rather than allowing what is out of your control to consume your time and thoughts, feelings of helplessness and overwhelm decrease significantly.\u202f<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Make Yourself a Priority\u202f<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>When asked why we don\u2019t make our well-being a higher priority, the most common answer is: not enough time. Although we can\u2019t add more hours to the day (No Control area of the Sphere of Influence), we can take actionable steps to better manage our time and carve out space to improve our overall wellness (Control area of the sphere).\u202f<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here are a few ideas to help you focus your energy on areas you can control when it comes to your well-being this time of year.\u202f<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Schedule Downtime:\u202f<\/strong>Block downtime off on your Outlook calendar like you would for a meeting or other work engagement.\u202f<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Set Positive Boundaries:\u202f<\/strong>Check out the following articles as a starting point:\u202f\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/sourcelive.hr.msu.edu\/?p=15806\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Tips to Establish and Maintain Healthy Boundaries<\/a>\u202f<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/sourcelive.hr.msu.edu\/?p=15856\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Leadership Blog Series: Positive Boundaries\u202f<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Be Selective:<\/strong>\u202fMost of us have an extraordinary number of demands placed on us, and this time of year often brings even more. Before you commit to anything additional, give yourself a little time to consider: Do I really need to do this\u202f<em>right now<\/em>?\u202f<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Get Back to the Basics:<\/strong>\u202fConsider your current relationship with sleep, physical activity, and eating. What are one or two simple steps you could take to improve your physical health? Even something as small as not having your cell phone next to your bed at night or scheduling short blocks of time on your calendar to stretch at your desk can have a tremendous impact. Ensuring your basic physical needs are met helps ensure a solid foundation for all aspects of your well-being.\u202f<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Utilize Your Resources\u202f<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>One major goal within<a href=\"https:\/\/strategicplan.msu.edu\/strategic-plan\/staff-faculty-success\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">\u202fMSU\u2019s strategic plan<\/a>\u202fis to support the \u201ccareer development and well-being of staff and faculty at MSU, focusing on creating a best-in-class workplace culture and welcoming environment in which excellence and opportunity thrive.\u201d From one-on-one counseling to self-paced learning opportunities, many resources are available to you as an MSU employee to improve your well-being and take care of yourself this year and beyond. Recommendations to get you started are listed below, along with contact information for specialists at MSU who can provide extra support.\u202f<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/uhw.msu.edu\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">University Health and Wellbeing<\/a><\/strong>:\u202fSupports our university community with health and well-being equitably woven throughout all aspects of Spartan life. They offer a variety of resources for employees, including:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/uhw.msu.edu\/health-and-wellbeing-services\/mental-health-and-trauma-support\/eap\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Employee Assistance Program (EAP)<\/a><\/strong>:\u202fMSU employees or retirees and their benefits-eligible dependents have access to the EAP, which provides confidential counseling at no cost. To best fit your schedule, EAP offers both virtual and in-person appointments.\u202f<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/uhw.msu.edu\/health-and-wellbeing-services\/health-promotion\/spartan-resilience\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Spartan Resilience Educational Webinars:<\/a>\u202f<\/strong>These webinars transform counseling-based skill-building into accessible media formats. These offerings integrate resilience education into the everyday living, learning, and working spaces of the Spartan community.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/uhw.msu.edu\/health-and-wellbeing-services\/health-promotion\/health-promotion-for-faculty-and-staff\/move-more-at-work\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Move More @ Work:<\/a><\/strong>\u202fAn ongoing campaign facilitated by University Health and Wellbeing\u2019s Health Promotion and Engagement office. Browse offerings, learn more about on-campus opportunities, and get moving more at work!\u202f<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/uhw.msu.edu\/health-and-wellbeing-services\/health-promotion\/health-promotion-for-faculty-and-staff\/worklife-wellbeing\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Worklife Wellbeing<\/a><\/strong>:\u202fCheck out the Worklife Wellbeing seminar options to see what you might want to learn more about.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/uhw.msu.edu\/health-and-wellbeing-services\/health-promotion\/spartan-resilience\/mindful-state\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Mindful State<\/a><\/strong>:\u202fAn emerging university-wide, collaborative initiative to help Spartans learn the benefits of mindfulness and access resources to develop or strengthen their mindfulness practices.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/elevateu.percipio.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">elevateU Online Learning Platform<\/a><\/strong>: Free, self-paced resources including short videos, online courses, and books around a wide variety of topics. Highlighted topics include:\u202f<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/share.percipio.com\/cd\/8wK8t9oX4\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Stress Management\u202f<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/share.percipio.com\/cd\/uEURVI2uP\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Cultivating Good Habits\u202f<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/share.percipio.com\/cd\/ge_xcKdSV\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Optimizing your Workplace Wellbeing<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/share.percipio.com\/cd\/nTfl1zXFM\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Managing Change Successfully<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/hr.msu.edu\/professional-development\/courses\/index.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">HR\u2019s Organization and Professional Development (OPD) Courses<\/a><\/strong>: Instructor-led courses offered by the friendly and knowledgeable OPD team. Course dates and times are updated throughout the year, so be sure to check back soon for updated course dates\/times! Highlighted courses include (new dates\/times coming soon):<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/hr.msu.edu\/professional-development\/courses\/personal-development\/breaking-free-from-stress.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Breaking Free from Stress<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/hr.msu.edu\/professional-development\/courses\/personal-development\/power-of-habit.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">The Power of Habit<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/hr.msu.edu\/professional-development\/courses\/personal-development\/creating-and-sustaining-a-positive-workplace.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Creating and Sustaining a Positive Workplace<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/hr.msu.edu\/professional-development\/courses\/personal-development\/getting-things-done.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Getting Things Done<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Opening Image Credit: Centre for Aging Better Age-Positive Image Library.\u202f<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ready or not, December is almost here! When you think about the remainder of the year, how do you feel? If thoughts of work deadlines, family get-togethers, or planning for the holidays and new year&hellip; <a class=\"continue\" href=\"https:\/\/sourcelive.hr.msu.edu\/?p=19499\">Continue Reading&#8230;<span> Feeling Stressed? 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